This is a new world.
A new century.
And a new age for mankind.
No more room left for
old ways,
dull thinkings,
and old-fashioned mindset.
Therefore, man have to take that step forward,
where the old policy implies that
BEING STRICT WITH CHILDREN
is the WAY
of bringing up great people, great things and bla blba bla...
MUST CHANGE!!!
In the past, many thought that leaving children running wildly
will soon make them slaves
to the devil
BUT this is all
not practical in this modern age.
well, it doesn't mean that we won't be slaves of devil,
but as time goes on,
we must change.
Heck, life is what all about changes.
That is why i strongly believe that
children must be allowed to learn life's lessons on their own.
**one can experience life itself**
**be more independent**
**grow towards maturity**
So ya, that's the 3 main reasons.
***
one can experience life itself
*
Children nowadays are smarter than we think.
They are fully aware that they are surrounded
by technologies, robots, machines
and whatnot.
Plus, there is the cyberworld,
where things take a different detour
when it comes to the internet.
Globalization is not strange.
So then why,
WHY CONFINE THEM?
let them go! let them fly! let them surf! let them roam!
Ya!! there is a big big world,
yet a small world via online.
Parents oh parents, I urge you guys,
stop being those antic-old-man,
and heck it!
Allow your child to experience life herself,
so that they can at least,
TASTE life...
You and i know that reality ain't so marvelous.
Life is full of bitterness, sweetness of course,
pains in trial, yet rewarding as it goes on.
And since man's greatest treasure is EXPERIENCE,
They must be given a chance, to know,
to understand, to experience what life is all about,
that it is not all about merry-go-round or what bed-of-roses,
but a painful, harsh cruel reality.
By the way,
if you parents are smart enough,
you may be giving yourself a break.
Those kids you let them go, will eventually be more
GRATEFUL of their parents,
and will at least make them
SHUT UP.
**
be more independent
*
So you and I know that life's is full of thorns
where troubles is no stranger
and problems are just another hurdle.
But for those naive little stupid kids,
it's more than Mount Everest.
It's... it's... like being Einstein. Haha!
AND THE BEST PART,
no help.
no.
So what happens?
Well, if you happen to have a child,
you try by not helping her or him up when
the child falls.
Of course he or she will cry,
but if you just ignore him or her,
she or he will eventually shudup,
wipe off their tears,
and get up to walk.
What is that?
BEING INDEPENDENT!
The Malaysia Language (Bahasa Malaysia)
calls INDEPENDENT
as BERDIKARI
which literally means
"standing on your own feet."
So it say.
And that is so important when your child get into the real world.
HELP is not always there.
So as mummy and daddy.
So if the child is fully equipped,
they will have no problem in facing problems in life.
They will not back down nor will not give in.
So what if there are failures?
Who never fail before?
UNLESS you are God.
And you're not!
So, heck failures, heck troubles,
course when you fail,
it's actually a good sign.
BECAUSE IT SHOWS THAT YOU TRIED TO SURPASS YOURSELF.
So ya, being independent
is what the child learn
if he is allowed to learn life's lessons on his own.
**
grow towards maturity
*
Sure, children's naive, stupidity and stubborn
will never ever work
in reality.
In order to survive, one must be smart enough,
tough enough,
and wise enough.
No chance for losers man.
Imagine a child being kept in his own
beautiful luxury and comfortable house.
When that POOR kid get out to the world,
he'll be dead!
no, not by heart-attack, but by culture shock!
And that's when I like to call those people
IDIOTS.
All their sweet tender parents love and care?
all bullshit when it comes to reality.
That is why,
when a child learns life's lessons himself,
he understands better,
and hence grow to be a more
mature and wise man.
Heed my advice, children.
Forget about Peter Pan and his Neverland,
for reality is not a land of love and fantasy.
*
what do you think?
Give your comments or feedback.
thanks for reading.
Have a good day
and
Ciao!
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