The experience of apologizing even when you are on the right side.
I did say ''sorry'' for not being that helpful, to my ex-friend.
Sigh.
I hate to call him that -- ex-friend, but it was his idea to end this friendship.
Seriously, I mean, 4 years of friendship just ended like this?
I could not accept it.
He was willing to loss a friend like me just because of failing in his date.
And it had nothing to do with me.
He was just in a bad mood, I mean, a very very bad mood.
I do not blame his mood, or luck, or bad luck...
but I cannot tolerate that he put the blame on me.
However, I apologized,
for my not-so-helping-you-in-your-freaking-date, loser!
Yes, my pride and ego was set aside.
I chose to step down, to step back,
(so that you don't look that bad!)
Of course I was mad, but I still did not want this friendship to end.
Friendship man, it's Friendship, don't you get it?
...
Heck, ''that's the end..." he told me.
Oh well... it's a pity right?
Sometimes, human can be so, so dumb, that they do not even know what they are doing, or thinking, or talking!
It is an irony~
True, apologizing does not always mean you are wrong and the other person is right.
APOLOGIZING MEANS YOU VALUE YOUR RELATIONSHIP MORE THAN YOU EGO.
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